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Saturday, September 8, 2012

Falling in LOVE

I was full of inspiration and motivation while writing this one. I generalized my ideas toward the topic, so that anybody could relate themselves. This essay is for HIM. I hope he read this. 

Falling in love to a person is something that you cannot explain your feelings towards to him/her. I've been to heartaches. But if you willing to love a person, you are willing to take the consequences (heartaches and etc.). That is my perception on love. 


How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not to persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain. LOVE IS LIKE A KNIFE, IT CAN STAB THE HEART OR IT CAN CURVE WONDERFUL IMAGES INTO THE SOUL THAT ALWAYS LAST FOR A LIFETIME. Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.

For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy days and fruitful years, you should give thanks; you know that there were things that helped you grow. Loving someone means giving them the freedom to find his way. Whether it leads towards you far away from you. Love is painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful for only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love. Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. 

Cams :)

2 comments:

  1. HI cams! I can so relate to this. I've just had my own share of heartbreak, a first after 28 years. i definitely agree with you about the idea of letting go no matter how much we want to hold on to the relationship. i was once told that we can only say we love a person if we let him go with all the beauty that's already in him. when love arrives,let's just welcome it and make itself comfortable. but when love leaves, let's just allow it to walk out of the door and say thank you for all the great things it left behind. we are still young, we have a vast beautiful world to explore. let's enjoy it, dance through life, and maybe surprise ourselves everyday. cheers! :)

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  2. Hi Ate Che, I like your comment, and it seems that our idea on love is quite similar....this is my weekly blog....out of a random though every week there is a topic i want to share...the first thing in this blog is about love...

    thanks :)
    Cams

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